Insecurities: How it is controlling our Lives?

 

Have you ever came across a day when you feel insecure about something? You started feeling you are worthless? Your inner soul is dying, and you still to keep a smile on your face? All these are the signs that you are focusing on negatives over positives.


I am also a person; a person who is not happy in her body, a person who feels that this world is not for her; a person who is alone from inside, a person whom no one understands. And the reason behind it is that I, myself, is not confident about my own self. I get insecure after looking at things I don’t have (Mostly Happiness). But there is a Comeback that I have, and trust me, it works-
“God created me this way because of a reason, and these are the things I have to live with. A few things I can change here, but others I can’t because they are not in my hand. So why not respect what I have? Why not feel secure of things that makes me better?” And when I start thinking in this way, things around me become better and positive.


Being a human, we all have to face different feelings each day- Some are bad, and some are good. So always we let all those negative thoughts control ourselves? It’s our life, our body, our brain, and our heart. We are capable of changing everything. Yes! It is hard to stay happy and optimistic for every single hour in a day, but we can make a mantra of saying goodbye to negative thoughts and thinking of what we are capable of.

Don't let your mind control your emotions


Start accepting yourself in the way you are, and trust me, things will become better around you. Appreciate what others have and learn from their ‘Goods’ and let go of their ‘Bads.’ Do whatever you like, listen to music, exercise, dance, or anything else, and you will see an instant difference in your attitude. Just remember, never take anyone’s support to become happy as that kind of happiness is temporary. You are strong alone, and you don’t need anyone.


Finally, I would like to tell you that I am proud of you, and you should be proud of yourself. You are different from others, and that’s what makes you better.
Say bye-bye to insecurities and take the first step ahead towards a positive lifestyle. :)

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